: Follow her lead on terminology. If you aren't sure, it is okay to ask what words she prefers for her body. 2. Physical Protection & STI Prevention
: Discuss what is "off-limits" and what is encouraged. This builds trust and ensures both partners feel safe and respected. safe sex with shemales
: Don't assume what she likes. Some pre-operative trans women may feel dysphoric (uncomfortable) about their genitals and may not want them touched or used during sex. : Follow her lead on terminology
: Use external (male) latex or polyurethane condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse. If using an internal (female) condom for anal sex, remove the inner ring first to prevent discomfort. Physical Protection & STI Prevention : Discuss what
: Use plenty of water-based or silicone-based lubricant . This is critical for anal sex and for post-operative vaginal sex to prevent tissue tears, which can increase the risk of infection.
: If you have frequent partners or higher-risk encounters, consider PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) to prevent HIV. If you believe you were exposed, seek PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis) from a clinic within 72 hours.
: Use latex or nitrile gloves for manual stimulation (fingering/fisting) to prevent spreading bacteria or STIs through small cuts on the hands. Dental dams can be used for oral-anal or oral-vaginal contact.