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"Hey [Name], I’ve been thinking a lot lately and wanted to share something personal with you. I’m gay. It’s been hard to say out loud, but I value our friendship and wanted you to know the real me."

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If "taking it hard" refers to the difficulty of coming out, sending a text can be a more comfortable first step than an in-person conversation. "Hey [Name], I’ve been thinking a lot lately

"Hey! I know we both lead busy lives, but I’ve been thinking about you. Hope your week is going well". 3. Making the First Move (Flirting) I'm looking for something more than just a

Gay dating can be famously frustrating, often feeling like a "hard" process of finding genuine connections beyond surface-level apps.