Attraction Isn't A: Choice

Like a dopamine spike in the brain when it "likes" what it sees, attraction happens automatically when certain biological and psychological triggers are met.

A person might logically know someone is a "great catch" (kind, stable, wealthy) but still feel zero "spark". Why This Principle Is Useful Attraction Isn't A Choice

Realizing it’s not always a personal failure, but often a lack of biological "fit" between two unique people. Like a dopamine spike in the brain when

Intense infatuation can be driven by a chemical cocktail of dopamine, norepinephrine (arousal/alertness), and a drop in serotonin (which leads to obsessive thoughts ). Attraction Isn't A Choice

Understanding that attraction is involuntary can be a liberating shift in perspective for both dating and self-development. How It Works